Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Oklahoma (where the wind comes sweeping down the plains...)

If someone would have told me back when I was engaged to my wonderful husband that I would someday reside in Oklahoma I may have called the wedding off (ok, not really but you get the gist)...

Never in a million years would I have dreamed I'd end up living in the midwest. Even more interesting than that, I LOVE it here and I don't think I'd ever go back to Phoenix.

So I decided to compile a list about all the things I love about Oklahoma since most people think I'm nutty for loving it here. This should finally answer the question I know is looming in your minds "why Oklahoma?".

Seasons
I know this word may be foreign to many of you. Let me explain. A season is where the weather changes and all kinds of things in nature begin happening, in fall leaves (yes we actually have trees here) begin to turn beautiful colors of red,
brown, yellow and purple. It is absolutely breathtaking. In the winter (this is when Christmas arrives for those of you in AZ) all the leaves fall off the trees and we sometimes get snow and ice. It's awesome. Just when you get absolutely sick to death of the cold, spring comes along and everything comes to life again. I love it.

Traffic
Yeah, we really don't have that here believe it or not. I loathe sitting in traffic waiting. It drives me bonkers. The freeway system here rocks. I can literally be from one side of town to the other in twenty minutes easy. The cool thing is that Oklahoma City FEELS like a small town but it really isn't. It has everything (except Chino's, Macayo's and Jack in The Box) that I need. So if you want to raise your kid with a small town feel, but don't want to raise cattle or drive two hours to a grocery store, OKC is awesome.

The Doctors
Seriously the best doctors and hospitals that I have ever seen. The doctors offices have bible verses on the walls. Nearly all of our doctors are good Christians who give us really great sound, Godly advice on raising our children. They remember our family and know who we are. Our family physician asked us every time we went in the office if we had found a home church yet and gave us suggestions on where we could go. You can't get care like that anywhere else.

Community
OKC has a great sense of community. Granted, a LOT of it centers around Sooner football, but the schools are fantastic. I truly feel that my kids are receiving a better education here than they would anywhere else. College is HUGE here, like it is totally expected that kids will go to college, and my kids will not even know they have the option NOT to go. Actually, they don't have the option. They will learn from my mistakes and go and GET IT OVER WITH when they are young.
Tornadoes
Wow, you are saying is she serious? Now, don't get me wrong, I don't enjoy seing someone's home get ripped to shreds and them loosing everything, or the casulties that happen during a tornado. What I love here is the excitment that goes with the weather. At first I was scared to death of tornadoes. Now it is a whole bunch of excitement on the news when a tornado or ice storm comes into town. It is the main event. I love going outside and looking up at the sky when it is all scary and black, then running back in real quick because I shouldn't be outside looking in the first place!
It's funny here because it is really like six degrees of separation. You know someone and realize that they know someone you know, and everyone is really connected somehow. You usually end up running into someone you know at the grocery store, which is funny because the city is pretty large. It is a big city with everything I need, yet it has this small town feel to it. I just can't explain it. I had such a rough time at first when I moved here. I missed my friends and family (and still do), but something has made me fall in love with this place as crazy as it sounds. I get angry when they call us a "flyover state" because truly I feel this is a wonderful place to live and raise a family.




Saturday, January 31, 2009

Help a Vet

Today panhandlers were out in droves, I think it is because the snow and ice has thawed and it is a gorgeous 70 degrees here in OKC.  Now, I have mixed feelings about these people, part of me wants to help if they TRULY need help, but part of me has seen the exposes on the news that show them making more than my husband and I do annually from panhandling.  

My son is now a very good reader, so he can read the signs these people have.  He saw one today that said "Help a vet, please help."  My son starts pleading with me to stop and help this man (he is a very tenderhearted little fellow).  I try to explain in first grader terms that if I had food or something I'd give it, but I NEVER give money.  That is my rule.  I then tried to reason with my son about how people can always find a job.   Even if you had to work at McDonalds.

My son then looked at me and said ,"Mom he doesn't WANT to work at McDonalds.  He wants to be a Vet."

Thursday, January 29, 2009

Live In The Moment

My buddies on Facebook have been uploading photos of our teenage years, and wow, the memories just start flooding back to you.  As I was looking at these photos, of trips to youth camp, trips to slide rock, and just us goofing all night at our best friend's house a realization hit me.  Those really WERE the best days of my life.  Not that I don't love where I'm at right now, but wow, I never realized then just how much fun I was having.

I spent so much of my youth mopey, depressed, worried about boys and stupid stuff that was so trivial and didn't matter.  I let these things get in the way of how much fun I really could have been having.  As I look back now, I don't remember which guy broke my heart, or which friend was pissing me off that day, I remember the good times we had, and the fun we had in each moment, that is what you take with you.

That being said, I STILL do this to this day.  I never live in the moment, I'm constantly trying to get to the next moment, and I don't realize the joy that is happening all around me.  I worry about stupid stuff and make myself miserable in every situation.   If I only had this I would be happy....well then I get that and I'm still NOT satisfied...If I can only do this THEN I will be content.  If I continue in this reckless pattern my life will have flashed by me and I will have missed out on what is truly important, and that is living in the moment.  

If I could learn to live in the moment, I wouldn't worry about tomorrow.  I would not worry if the house was clean or the dishes were done.  I wouldn't be thinking about having to go to school next week, or getting the laundry done.  This is not to say let everything go, but if I learned to live in the moment, I'd drop that laundry basket for thirty minutes and wrestle in the living room with my kids.  If I could learn to live in the moment, I wouldn't worry if the kids spill koolaid on the carpet because they are only little for such a brief time.  

“Life is all memory, except for the one present moment that goes by you so quickly you hardly catch it going”
-Tennessee Williams
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